Archive | April 2018

The person behind the blog

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I thought it would be good to share more about me and my personality so you can get to know the person behind the blog. These are words and phrases I associate with myself.

  • Total Hip Replacement/ Perthes Disease– As of August 2011 I have had a false left hip, done aged 25, made of plastic and ceramic with a metal stem. I had it done due to osteoarthritis in the hip brought on early by childhood hip issue Perrthes Disease.

  • OCD– Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, diagnosed aged twelve.

  • Autism/ Aspergers– I was diagnosed aged thirty-one, but have suspected I have it for years.

  • Disabled- I am less physically disabled now than I used to be thanks to my hip replacement, but know that it will not last for ever. Also my mental health can make me feel somewhat disabled at times. Autism is not a disability as such if you see it as just a different way of thinking, but it is often classed as one such as when applying for benefits or educational support.

  • Social Housing– I live in social housing,which is what used to be known as council housing in the UK, but now run by different housing associations. I have been living in my one bed flat since Easter 2016 and I really like it.

  • Benefits– I receive government benefits. Currently I get Employment Support Allowance as for various mental health reasons I can not work full time right now. I also get housing benefit to help with my rent. I have in the past had Disability Living Allowance, now changed to Personal Independents Payments, but I am not eligible for it at this current time.

  • Volunteer– I have been volunteering for various local charities and good causes since I was seventeen. It helps me to get out more, make friends, learn work related skills and add to my CV. I currently help a community craft shop, do administration work for my local community centre and help another charity run their Facebook page.

  • Drama Degree– I graduated the University of Lincoln with a BA (Hons) Drama degree in 2011. I really enjoyed my three years there.

  • Sister/ Aunt– I have one older brother and am an aunt to his two children, a nephew and a niece. I love being an aunt.

  • Devon– My home county where I lived all of my life, apart from time away for university.

  • Crafting– I have been making cards to send people for years. I now also make small things to sell under the name The Gothic Butterfly. I have a small shelf in a local craft shop and a Facebook page. I decorate gift boxes and bags, make gift tags, book marks and other small objects.

  • Colouring- Now it is very popular to do adult colouring, but I was doing it before it was so easy to even get adult colouring books. I find it helps me to relax and distracts me from my anxiety.

  • Theatre– A life long love of mine is going to the theatre to see many kinds of performances. I love musicals, plays, ballet and modern dance. I also enjoy some opera and stand up comedy, although I am a bit more fussy about which of these I would go to see.

  • Pub Quizzes– I enjoy going to various pub quizzes regularly with a group of my friends. Not only is it fun to take part and test out how much general knowledge I have, it is a good way to socialise.

  • Writer– I have always enjoyed writing and have had good feedback for my writing more so than anything else in my life. As well as this blog, I write a daily diary which I helpful to explore my thoughts and feelings. Writing for me can be kind of therapy. I also have pen pals around he world I write letters to.

  • Internet– I love the internet, it is somewhat of an addiction for me I admit, but it has been such a help to me during low periods of my life I do not care. Social media is for me a tool that I can use to express myself and keep in touch with friends which as an autistic person I always find quite tricky. I mainly use Facebook, but I also occasionally use Instergram for photo sharing. I obviously use the internet to share this blog and like most people use email. I also use the internet for a variety of other functions which I have written about before in a previous post.

  • Cafes/ Coffee Shops– I really like to drink coffee and hang out in coffee shops. Although I do go to pubs sometimes, I tend to spend more money and time in cafes. I often get quite tired from my mental and physical health issues, cafes are a good place to go and recharge my batteries when out. I like the relaxed, often friendly atmosphere of a cafe. I also really like coffee and cake.

  • Television– I watch a lot of TV. I find it helps with my mental health to distract me from my own anxious thoughts and not over think negativity about things in my life. I also really enjoy certain programs. I really like Call the Midwife and Doctor Who. I like some documentaries and have learnt a lot from watching many on the BBC. I also like some sitcoms and animated comedy such as American Dad.

  • Music– I enjoy listening to music a great deal. My favourite bands are The Rasmus, a Finnish rock band and Train, American soft rock. I enjoy the music of old bands such as Pink Floyd, the Kinks and the Mamas and the Papas. I like a lot of funk music from the 1970s and 80s. I like a lot of musicals show tunes. Also when in certain moods I enjoy classical music.

  • Cheese– A life long love of mine is cheese, I even ate strong blue cheese as a small child. I am yet to find a cheese I do not like (apart from goats cheese, which has an after taste I dislike).

  • Dark Purple– This has been a colour I have been drawn to all of my life. I like it in nature, in things that I wear and around my flat. I am not sure why this is, but I remember liking purple things from a very young age.

Writing this you would think would of been easy, but it was harder than I thought it would be.  I had to work out how much I wanted to reveal about myself and what things I even do associate with myself.  Other people may associate different things with me, but this is how I see myself.

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